Now, when others, any other will do, tell me what I am, who I am, how I am...I have to just weed out the information. Toss the weeds and consider the rest, then be my best. Once I decided to value myself, things started to change. You see, how I see myself is how I will be, even if it's not so at the moment.
To be completely honest, it took a long time to realize in my life, the way I saw it in my mind. The sooner you make up your own mind as to who you really are, the sooner you will see that person in the mirror. OH and by the way the mirror is one of the OTHERS.
As I've said before, life is a journey, not a destination. Who you are evolves over time. It takes practice and experimentation. So, be flexible, adapt to what works, scrap what doesn't. Take the pressure off yourself, nobody does it perfectly. Perfectly doesn't exsist.
Who am I this morning? Late, lazy and okay with it. I'll pull myself together after tea and the day will be a good one. Who do you want to be today? That's okay too.