What I'm very thankful for, is the fact that, since my huge breakthrough in April of this year, I don't give a rip. Nothing much bothers me. I am doing my best to live an upright life. I have no control over the rediculousness of others, even, as relates to me. I am only responsible for my thoughts and actions. I am only answerable for same.
The freedom this attitude has given me is jawdropping. Minding my own business has given me a peace that passes understanding. I no longer hold myself responsible for the actions of others, their happiness, health, finances or the lack thereof.
My only responsibility is my own happiness. Once I understood this truth, I immediately let go of the expectations of others, it wasn't much of a leap into happiness.
You are an individual. You don't own your life to anyone. You are worthy of happiness and prosperity in your own right. You are here to be happy and prosperous. Jesus said, in John 10:10 ". . .My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life."
Today I am operating on this premise. I do not judge others. I do, allow them to wallow their misery, if that's what they choose to do. I no longer have to come along for the ride.
Fantasizing the freedom to take care of and MIND my own business.