I decided to remove myself from the situation. I wonder if she and others like her will ever come to realize, they are their own worst enemy? When you come across someone like that, it is repellant.
Funny how they tend to blame the people who run from them for "not being there". The truth is, who would want to be around someone like that if they didn't have to?
One more example of how your thoughts and words, create your reality. I know another woman who has had a very difficult life. She is almost, always, up beat and looking toward something better. I remember only one time, she broke down and told me how hard her life has been. She ended with saying something like this; I try to keep my spirits up. What's the use in dwelling on the negative?
This woman is my sister and an inspiration to me. She has never cried and whined about her lot in life. She always makes people around her smile. She also, has never expected anything from anyone and shows no resentments. Keep your chin up Deborah, you make a difference.
We all have our difficulties and hardships. No matter where you live, how much money you have in the bank. It is totally in our control to adjust our attitude and enjoy the life we have. Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative! Fantasizing freedom from resentment and blame.