Whether you are in my family or simply an acquaintance, the more you beg for approval from me, the less I want to give it. I guess it's because I feel like, if you have to insist on it, you don't deserve it.
There is a sister of mine who constantly tells me how disappointed she is that I've never been there for her. It's me and the other two sisters who've let her down. The truth is, she's never been there for anybody else, including her children.
She demands attention in the worst possible way. If we do not provide it the way she thinks we should, all hell breaks loose.
Unfortunately for her and others like her, they will never get what they think they deserve. What they will get it exactly what they do deserve. I can't be around her, talk to her or have anything to do with her or people like her.
So self centered and selfish it makes me want to scream. If you are not getting what you need from other people, it's time to look in the mirror. As I've said many, many times, if you have a problem it's always you.
If you are lonely, bored or disillusioned, you are the only one who can change that. Be the best person you can be, stop expecting others to take care of you and you'll be surprised at how your life changes.
Fantasizing the freedom to give to those I choose to give to.