It's making the decision every day, one day at a time that changes your circumstances. You see, your circumstances reflect what is going on inside you. If your mind is chaotic, your life will be chaotic. When your mind is set, your life will follow what it's set on.
I can look back over my life to many years of fear, failure, disease and hopelessness. It's only when I decided enough was enough, life started to change in big ways. I won't lie and say the transformation was easy, it was not. Is not. I WILL say, it's so worth the effort.
Waking up everyday, my biggest problem is what to wear to work. I am happy. That is not to say my life is worry free, or problem free, only that, today, I know it's all temporary and not a reflection of me.
When you have perspective of time past, it's easier to see ahead, around the corner and know things will be different tomorrow. AND, every hardship, given room, can make you a stronger, kinder, more compassionate, therefore, richer person.
Fantasizing the freedom to mold my life into what I always dreamed of!!